Lanigan published “Hand in Hand Through the End of Life” three months ago. The book, which is available at Amazon.com, chronicles the lessons she learned from her elderly parents as they moved through the end stages of their lives.
The lessons range from helping choose a senior care facility to preparing for the final breath.
“I think millions of us are facing the challenges of how to care for elderly parents, and how you prepare for the emotions as well as the tasks,” Lanigan said. “Hopefully, the book gives some preparation for the emotional experience as well as for the practical aspects to be considered.”
Lanigan earned a master’s degree in social work at the University of Chicago and runs a private practice in Grand Haven. She moved to the Grand Haven area from New York City in 2007.
Her parents, Edith and Harry Bronner, relocated here after living in the Bronx for 70 years because they could no longer maintain their mobility and quality of life there.
“It was very interesting,” Lanigan said. “They were both German Jews. They had lived in New York since they were able to get out of Germany in 1938. The entire neighborhood was German-Jewish. The idea of them moving to a Midwestern town after all those years, it was an amazing thing to watch.”
Edith was 85 and Harry was 87 when they moved to a retirement home in West Michigan.
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