Democracy – 7 Education – 6 (Nation’s) Status – 6 Money/wealth – 5 Fabio said those were exactly the values he most often associates with America, except for one: patriotism. It didn’t appear on the board at all, and only one person could find it lower on the list. Interesting. Fabio was really surprised. He said the above four values “are a part of the materialistic nature of America” and emphasized that it wasn’t meant to be offensive, just honest. We started talking about another value that appeared in various forms: competition/success/accomplishment. Americans tend to judge people based on incomes, whether we realize it or not. One of the first questions we ask each other when meeting is: “What do you do for a living? Where do you work?” This immediately gives us a sense of that individual’s income. Or, for college students, the question is: “Where do you go to school?” The price of that school and how elite it is also gives a good sense of their wealth. Fabio explained that this is unique to Americans. A career is not part of how Italians and most other cultures introduce themselves. Loyalty to careers, jobs and the professional world is a particular characteristic of the American culture. I hadn't thought of it like that, but it's so true. We also listed three values that don't embody the American culture and listed them on the board. It made us sound like a pretty wretched crew.
What America is not, according to my intercultural communication class:Privacy Regulation and control Gratitude Equal opportunity Chastity (2) World unity (2) All for one, one for all Rationality Subtlety Accomplishment Family values Respect for elders Force Simplicity Timeliness Global view Calm, quiet (2) Peace/nonviolent Honesty/Truthfulness Romance of life Consensus Helpfulness/being friendly Solitude Sincerity Ritual Editor’s note: Former Grand Haven Tribune intern Lydia Coutré is spending a semester in Italy. She is a junior at Kent State University, studying journalism. Her blogs during her stay in Italy will be posted here and at http://lydiaislost.blogspot.com.