Diane Lang is the author of two books, "Baby Steps: The Path from Motherhood to Career" and "Creating Balance and Finding Happiness."
Her first question she says parents should ask themselves is, "What type of parent are you currently?"
"Rate yourself," Lang wrote. "If you could score yourself on a 1-10 basis, 1 being the worst and 10 being the best, where would you put yourself and why?
"After having over 50 parents answer this question, I have found the most common answer to be anywhere from a 5 or less.
"As parents, we tend to think we are never doing enough. We think we’re OK, but could always do better. We remember everything we did wrong. I just yelled at my daughter, I wasn’t fully listening, I couldn’t get off of work to see her school play. We never think of the good we did."
OK, so don't beat yourself up over it. I think that's what she's saying.
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